What is Better A Lie that Draws the Smile or The Truth

A FACE TO FACE TRUTH

"Saach ka samana" "Satyamev jayate"."feeling of truth"..a brave sentence in itself faced by every one one day or the other.

 The fact remains after it comes out it feels so relaxed and comfortable, but it takes quite strong efforts to put it out.

 To face your loved ones with the feeling that you have lied is very tough. Truth is omnipotent, sometimes very bitter, but if spoken it can convert that bitterness to sweetness in the long run .sometimes......No......it would be better if I say, in fact most of the time there is a question in my mind..... Why do people lie.

I agree to that, each and every day is a new beginning and we should walk seeing ahead, not the past. There are some things which connect your past to present and to future...............and when it comes out it becomes a disaster in your present.

 I agree the truth can lead to difficult situations sometimes, but in that case the speaker needs to speak on the right time & amp; in the right manner.

As per me, every person does not deserve to know the truth. But yes, if the person matters to your life, he/ she actually shares some important feelings/ emotions of life, then we should share it in a right manner.

Truth has something extravagant inside it, when spoken out, you feel energetic and so confident, that you are even ready to face off the negative interactive after effects of the person standing in front of you, and if you are actually wrong it gives you that inner strength that you can accept your mistake and work on it.

 Truth is like your inner self, put outside........The person who don't like to carry double faces believes in truth. On the contrary , it is also true that everybody is actually not worthy to know you and the truth.

But on top of it, the greatest fact is that, the person who deserves to know you should not be entitled with lie.

Also, a general question is that In the long run, a smile which is based in the lies is generally hurting. Because when it gets revealed it brings the storm because many more things enter into the truth mix like trust, belief, etc and as far as the second text is concerned, the person who is speaking the truth is actually confident to make the listener understand an he/she has the guts to accept the wrong done or the reality which is very bitter. But, the most important clause adding to this situation is speak truth but first see and analyze the situation.

 Without seeing the situation and speaking non stop without applying sense, the truth leaves you nowhere. This is why we say some things are best if done on time and worst if done at the wrong time.

Remember courage is not just the virtue of the soldier or an army man, but a prized possession of a truthful human who want to live his/her life with dignity and want to be remembered as a great human not when he is alive but when he is not present and is actually there in the words of the thousands of humane.

After speaking those truthful words see the inner soul inside you will be less pressurized and will be happier like a bird roaming it any the open sky without any ones encroachment.    

 A well honed saying explains it so simply                           

    "Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth" - is a great saying by buddha, and I totally agree onto it. what is better...a lie that draws a smile...or a truth that draws a tear???"if someone has enough courage to ask you a question seriously, then you should be brave enough to answer truthfully

"Be A Truth Seeker!!!! Be A Truth Bearer!!!!!Be A Truth Speaker!!!!

Positive of Self Expectations

When any human thinks about self!!!!we call  it selfishness...but the question to my heart is ..u are the one who understands self needs and wishes...and if you cannot put them into action,try to accomplish them who else will........
There is something what you call as self expectations, attached to self, ur feelings and emotions too. When I potray my demands to self and want it to be accomplished on eagerly basis.....this eagerly anticipation from self  is the self expectation when we want our desires, wishes and the prospects of obviously growth, success, name & fame to be accomplished in any manner.
I as a racer find a link between the goal set and the self expectation.

In words of Orison Swett Marden-
 "We advance on our journey only when we face our goal, when we are confident and believe we are going to win out."

Very True is the above statement!!!we move as we have a defined goal, we strategise for we want it to get accomplished and we are confident when we have a belief and we work smarter, we anticipate our success for we are optimistic and we have a approach as we have a self expectation.
Several studies had been continuously focusing on this humane thinking phenomenon.famous is the galate effect which Focuses upon the effect of self-expectations and how they interact with the expectations of others. Teachers and employers give their students and employees subtle cues about how they are expected to perform. These expectations of others combine with self-expectations to create a person’s level of motivation. The Galatea Effect is that part of our motivation that depends upon our self-expectations.


 In the motivational words of Mr andrews, 
we control what our future will be like.....

High self expectations lead to good things. Low or bad self expectations lead to bad things. THINK about the truth in what is written in this essay. Believe it. Accept it, Make it your own philosophy! Make it one of your Life-Rules!

To the one who want to excel & prosper in their personal and professional life, here comes a taster to your life's recipe.

 If you have high expectations for yourself, you WILL automatically work towards meeting those expectations.

That is how the human mind works. 

 You will work, or even struggle, to find ways to reach your goals. The chances are you will succeed in succeeding. - - - 

Our self expectations are usually our self fulfilling prophecies which have direct link with our self less heart which knows what he wants and what not.

Just think, for if you think you can do it, you can definitely do it...and if you think you can't do it, just think why can't you do it and find the reason and let me tell if you find the reason of not doing it, you will actually do it, for your self expectations at that time will propel you to do it in the most accepted way.

 "Don't expect anything from others for it will create misunderstandings, but expect from self, it will ignite you to move higher, to the highest and to the apex......."

our self expectations are more important than anything else in this world as it portrays the powerful effect of your thinking about you which ultimately corresponds to your success in the coming future.We agree to the very commonly used statements that we are the creators of our destiny, we determine the prospects of our success, we are the one who increase or decrease the productivity of self and the probability of the most optimistic or the most pessimistic thing which will be happening in the coming future.The lesson of self expectation is very much required for adults, who become practical and experienced reaching to an age but forgets the value of dreaming.Better agree to the statement that

If you have a positive attitude to succeed, then you will not give up.

THINK about it!

Thus, here comes a mantra for the most anticipated success,

Make an attitude to win this world, which is just an expression of your imbibed values, beliefs and the self expectations. 

YOU HAVE CHANGED

We say 

we adjust with time!!!

we move as per time!!!

we control as per time!!

we should live as per time.

What is this TIME

The present, the current, the ecstatic day, the month, year or second on which our mind escalates to the unknown and untouched heights.

the unknown reason, for unknown moments, for unknown future.

Why do we dream for this unknown.when we have to live with and according to time.

My experience into practicality started after entering into the soo called PROFESSIONAL WORLD.

Before that my mind was filled with the unlimited unrealistic dreams wherein everything was filled with the negatively turned probability.

The time speaks, and gives the answer it changes your mindsets and answer all your queries under your stipulated ranges of the existing situations. to think about that probable under the reach of time might be quite hindering, to your actual instincts and thoughts, hence the thoughts develops the dilemma which should be Marjory to be  thought upon.

The deferred situation of the life when you demand something for that instant that moment is quite unadjustable on your part. the relishing past is quite memorable when you wanted it to be your present, but the reality with the open eyes is something else, wherein if you try to collaborate it through the cut edges also, it remains unattached. the people say that you should not change, but the reality is even time changes.  everything is prospected to change. a single needle in the clock also will not be on the same place, after striking once in a day. time is considered as  fruit generator.with time person experience what he never thought off.

Then how can we expect the person, his concern, his care to remain the same.why is it our actions depreciate but our expectations on the other hand alleviate our emotions. the worldly aided pleasures always act an assistant to the men behavior. the quiet in time changes even the aura between the two whether he/she is nearest or vice versa. the basic motto, which had propounded my emotions to support the ever stated statement by most of the person we meet after some time.

OMG "you have changed"

Unwithered Memories

Memories come to every situation!!!

Every  small and big instance builds and adds a certain experience to ur lyf's autonomous jotted biography.
To every experience there are attached a bunch of gud and bad moments, where emotions played a distinctive role and add to what you call memory.

The beautiful part is lyf moves on...but  what exists is the memories which we actually cherish all through our lives. these memories never gets withered.........and for if it is related with your loved ones (existing or not).

Close your eyes and sit with the soothing cold winds and the beautiful nature, your time machine will stop and gear up to all the things which actually made you what you are today. May be every body is tightly packed up with their everyday busters nowadays, but to every part of this exist and builds up their memories.
my MEMORIES are what i can write endlessly,

whether I talk of school, whether I talk of Mody, whether I talk of friends, whether I talk of srisiim, bhilwara, ajmer, family, mom, sister, like, love, sand, asmara, pd,room mate, hatred, etc etc etc..............

To every word is attached my lots of good and very good memories. very good memories because because initially they were very hurting but as the time passed, i realized the worth of those instances which actually made me sooo strong to tackle and live life in a realistic way.

How cum every word can create soo many instances and memories attached to it?????
Itz just like a link pasted on to my heart wherein the data is stored in the form of small packets
Packet- Mody On.............reminds everything. open wide eyes but still flash back starts.


Well!!It was just an attempt to flash back all ur lyf wid the open eyes searching something really valuable to think upon!!

Would definitely luv to hear all from ur lyf!!and definitely if I am apart of it!!tats my pleasure!!!
Ur unwithered memory which you can actually guage with even the open eyes!!! Do comment!!!
Waiting!!!

Unusual but Quite Interesting Luvv U Zindagi

I would have never thought of sitting behind the bus driver seats for the whole night, wid my eyes wide open, feeling the cool breeze, the black slippery shiny road twinkling wid the half moon dim light.

An unusual instance when i was tired and bus got hanged then and there in the jungle. the driver managed to call one of his travels bus wid a gr8 ease. may be it was my luck, that the bus came after half an hour itself, when i woke up from my sweet sleep. Never thought off, that i would be sitting behind the driver, and to my most lavishing memory was a newly wedded couple, tightly hanged up under the space of two. the lady was very much worried about her hubby, made me realize the old Indian cultural part still alive.
the lady was not worried about anything else more than her hubby catching the cold. sounds quite interesting but the guy was very normal to all her this endeavor.
it made me realize the worthy need of the loved one and the person who can care for you and for whom you can care of every time, for any stupid reason.
when mom says to me, beta, one should think about marriage because it is very important for the person whom u can care off and who cares for you is very important.may be indirectly it made me realize that actually it is very important when you are alone and you have hundreds of things to share off to the person who actually is made for you only.
although, the cold night was making me realize my loneliness from heart, but on the other hand, i was actually enjoying the aroma, the beautiful view from the front mirror. it sounds very funny but i alwaz dreamt off a long drive on a highway wid my dream. wherein the cold breeze, the beautiful nature is all around me and he s speaking for i can listen to him anytym.

hahahahahah!!!jokes apart, the night was dere, but my love wasn't, the vehicle was dere, but loaded wid lots of struggling darlings of their family like me.

All the worries, tensions, and the darrr!!!was there but wat was actually more important was my lyf s unusual experience which actually drives me crazy and adventurous on this part. being awake all the night still made me feel afresh when i actually reached home.
 The rising sun  pulled off all the negative vibes coming from the past some dayzz, and propelled me to move again, on the roaring path!!!!of Wat i called the gestation period of the successful lyf!!!

fingers crossed and all energy assembled again!!!!!saying just 3 words

LUUUUUVVVVVV U ZINDAGI

10 most important habits

Many of our problems come from within our own minds. They aren’t caused by events, bad luck, or other people. We cause them through our own poor mental habits. Here are 10 habits you should set aside right away to free yourself from the many problems each one will be causing you.

• Stop jumping to conclusions. There are two common ways this habit increases people’s difficulties. First, they assume that they know what is going to happen, so they stop paying attention and act on their assumption instead. Human beings are lousy fortune-tellers. Most of what they assume is wrong. That makes the action wrong too. The second aspect of this habit is playing the mind-reader and assuming you know why people do what they do or what they’re thinking. Wrong again, big time. More relationships are destroyed by this particular kind of stupidity than by any other.
• Don’t dramatize. Lots of people inflate small setbacks into life-threatening catastrophes and react accordingly. This habit makes mountains out of molehills and gives people anxieties that either don’t exist or are so insignificant they aren’t worth worrying about anyway. Why do they do it? Who knows? Maybe to make themselves feel and seem more important. Whatever the reason, it’s silly as well as destructive.
• Don’t invent rules. A huge proportion of those “oughts” and “shoulds” that you carry around are most likely needless. All that they do for you is make you feel nervous or guilty. What’s the point? When you use these imaginary rules on yourself, you clog your mind with petty restrictions and childish orders. And when you try to impose them on others, you make yourself into a bully, a boring nag, or a self-righteous bigot.
• Avoid stereotyping or labeling people or situations. The words you use can trip you up. Negative and critical language produces the same flavor of thinking. Forcing things into pre-set categories hides their real meaning and limits your thinking to no purpose. See what’s there. Don’t label. You’ll be surprised at what you find.
• Quit being a perfectionist. Life isn’t all or nothing, black or white. Many times, good enough means exactly what it says. Search for the perfect job and you’ll likely never find it. Meanwhile, all the others will look worse than they are. Try for the perfect relationship and you’ll probably spend your life alone. Perfectionism is a mental sickness that will destroy all your pleasure and send you in search of what can never be attained.
• Don’t over-generalize. One or two setbacks are not a sign of permanent failure. The odd triumph doesn’t turn you into a genius. A single event—good or bad—or even two or three don’t always point to a lasting trend. Usually things are just what they are, nothing more.
• Don’t take things so personally. Most people, even your friends and colleagues, aren’t talking about you, thinking about you, or concerned with you at all for 99% of the time. The majority of folk in your organization or neighborhood have probably never heard of you and don’t especially want to. The ups and downs of life, the warmth and coldness of others, aren’t personal at all. Pretending that they are will only make you more miserable than is needed.
• Don’t assume your emotions are trustworthy. How you feel isn’t always a good indicator of how things are. Just because you feel it, that doesn’t make it true. Sometimes that emotion comes from nothing more profound than being tired, hungry, annoyed, or about to get a head-cold. The future won’t change because you feel bad—nor because you feel great. Feelings may be true, but they aren’t the truth.
• Don’t let life get you down. Keep practicing being optimistic. If you expect bad things in your life and work, you’ll always find them. A negative mind-set is like looking at the world through distorting, grimy lenses. You spot every blemish and overlook or discount everything else. It’s amazing what isn’t there until you start to look for it. Of course, if you decide to look for signs of positive things, you’ll find those too.
• Don’t hang on to the past. This is my most important suggestion of all: let go and move on. Most of the anger, frustration, misery, and despair in this world come from people clinging to past hurts and problems. The more you turn them over in your mind, the worse you’ll feel and the bigger they’ll look. Don’t try to fight misery. Let go and move on. Do that and you’ve removed just about all its power to hurt you.

cloudy for luv

the dazzling morning when came...................i stopped my alarm clock which was banging like hell on my head calling me to WAKE up.................

i suddenly realized after gazing  from the mirror and found i was locked in the clouds so beautifully.......for once i fell i am in the clouds..............

and suddenly my mind clicked "does heaven really looks like dis"..............

the beautiful day started for me wondering this very question which is still unanswered...................
does the beautiful angels an the dream ladies recode and travel on these beautiful speechless way....................

my momentum to gaze out of theses clouds was flattened due to my dreamy vision which was hallowing and pondering my head and heart..............

wat a beauty...wat the beautiful nature bestowed upon us................

it is actually so relaxing when you see nothing which you dont want to see, neither crowd, neither poverty nor the wondering inhuman blunder caused on dis beautiful; mother earth.................

the tym i actually started travelling to office, those 20 km were full of dazzle for me as i actually wanted to figure out one of the angels....................

the beauty of the nature had always left me spell bound and created a thirst inside me to exactly know more about it...there is soo much fun and adventure on this beautiful nature...................

life is luv and luv is all around you wen you are surrounded with the beautiful nature..................

kaash!!! is the only word which leaves all my expectations to the dreams................the clouds the romance, the beauty and offcourse my man...........................