When any human thinks about self!!!!we call it selfishness...but the question to my heart is ..u are the one who understands self needs and wishes...and if you cannot put them into action,try to accomplish them who else will........
There is something what you call as self expectations, attached to self, ur feelings and emotions too. When I potray my demands to self and want it to be accomplished on eagerly basis.....this eagerly anticipation from self is the self expectation when we want our desires, wishes and the prospects of obviously growth, success, name & fame to be accomplished in any manner.
I as a racer find a link between the goal set and the self expectation.
In words of Orison Swett Marden-
"We advance on our journey only when we face our goal, when we are confident and believe we are going to win out."
Very True is the above statement!!!we move as we have a defined goal, we strategise for we want it to get accomplished and we are confident when we have a belief and we work smarter, we anticipate our success for we are optimistic and we have a approach as we have a self expectation.
Several studies had been continuously focusing on this humane thinking phenomenon.famous is the galate effect which Focuses upon the effect of self-expectations and how they interact with the expectations of others. Teachers and employers give their students and employees subtle cues about how they are expected to perform. These expectations of others combine with self-expectations to create a person’s level of motivation. The Galatea Effect is that part of our motivation that depends upon our self-expectations.
In the motivational words of Mr andrews,
we control what our future will be like.....
To the one who want to excel & prosper in their personal and professional life, here comes a taster to your life's recipe.
If you have high expectations for yourself, you WILL automatically work towards meeting those expectations.
That is how the human mind works.
You will work, or even struggle, to find ways to reach your goals. The chances are you will succeed in succeeding. - - -
Our self expectations are usually our self fulfilling prophecies which have direct link with our self less heart which knows what he wants and what not.
Just think, for if you think you can do it, you can definitely do it...and if you think you can't do it, just think why can't you do it and find the reason and let me tell if you find the reason of not doing it, you will actually do it, for your self expectations at that time will propel you to do it in the most accepted way.
"Don't expect anything from others for it will create misunderstandings, but expect from self, it will ignite you to move higher, to the highest and to the apex......."
our self expectations are more important than anything else in this world as it portrays the powerful effect of your thinking about you which ultimately corresponds to your success in the coming future.We agree to the very commonly used statements that we are the creators of our destiny, we determine the prospects of our success, we are the one who increase or decrease the productivity of self and the probability of the most optimistic or the most pessimistic thing which will be happening in the coming future.The lesson of self expectation is very much required for adults, who become practical and experienced reaching to an age but forgets the value of dreaming.Better agree to the statement that
If you have a positive attitude to succeed, then you will not give up.
THINK about it!
Thus, here comes a mantra for the most anticipated success,
Make an attitude to win this world, which is just an expression of your imbibed values, beliefs and the self expectations.
